Frequently, a lady whom discovers by by by herself interested in two guys, is just one whoever desires that are certain being pleased by one guy and specific other people by another. She desires both of these for just what they bring to her life. On her behalf, stopping one guy means quitting some of these desires, which she actually is maybe not ready to do. Most of the time, this issue arises as soon as we glance at a relationship, based solely on our very own satisfaction [I-centric], and never as being a mutually provided partnership [we-centric], where in fact the relationship, the ‘we’, the’ that is‘us respected and where healthier negotiations occur.

A we-centric individual takes the time and effort to communicate towards the partner that certain basic valid relationship requirements aren't being fulfilled.