Ask MetaFilter. Well, some people–maybe many people– will be pissed, other people defintely won’t be.

BUT — I would personally state you will probably fare even worse than a person who is Jewish, and also at that time craigslist San Diego personals you kinda need certainly to create a cost/benefit analysis as it is a pay website, and kinda costly if we remember. posted by Afroblanco at 12:19 PM on August 5, 2010 [1 favorite]

I am Jewish (by birth and upbringing, atheist by belief) who was simply on Jdate if I could help it because hey, might as well not put the Orthodox parents in an early grave. We was not that comfortable myself with especially dating Jews only, but i decided to test it out for it worked — I met my wife there for them, and.

I usually thought the non-Jews on the website had been sorts of creepy because We assumed that they had some label of Jews which they had been in search of. (I had non-Jewish buddies tell me such things as “My mother constantly liked people that are jewish. ” Yeah, kinda strange.) It seriously never occurred in my opinion that they might be there just because they liked the site until I read your question. So you may desire to spell that out (along with your perhaps not being Jewish) when you do join.

I additionally assumed that most Jews whom utilize Jdate do this since theyare looking to date/marry A jew that is fellow possibly you can find sufficient who will be here simply because they such as the site aswell. Cannot hurt to try.

Good fortune! published by callmejay at 12:51 PM on August 5, 2010

In the event that you are like this, don’t even bother” paragraph at the beginning of your profile if you want to avoid immature folks on OKCupid, just put a long “this is not what I’m looking for, so.

Yeah, I would be cautious about this. I discovered myself avoiding ladies who did that also like I happened to be whatever they were looking just because it made them appear either too judgy or in control of “too much luggage. if it sounded” posted by callmejay at 12:52 PM on August 5, 2010 [2 favorites]

There are numerous mature experts on Match.com, eharmony, perfectmatch, etc.

If a guy joined Kdate because he ‘liked Asians’ I would be repulsed. I am wanting to feel differently right here, rather than totally succeeding. posted by namesarehard at 1:17 PM on 5, 2010 august

“if you may be similar to this, do not even bother” paragraph at the start of your profile. if you would like avoid immature people on OKCupid, simply place a lengthy “this isn’t the things I’m trying to find, therefore”

Which is an idea that is seriously bad. Idiots won’t ever stop being idiots simply because a no-idiots indication is published. Non-idiots are certain to get the impression that you are rude. posted by 2otitle at 2:06 PM on August 5, 2010 [1 favorite]

I wish to aim away to namesarehard, that match.com sucks, and has now a very low, inferior of individual, and eharmony sucks for any other reasons. No experience with perfectmatch.

Actually, once nerve went pay, there has been no real good online personals. I have utilized ’em at the same time or any other, the short-lived and the ones that outlived their stages that are good. I am vaguely lured to have a look at JDate now. Although I’d feel only a little creepy, such as the right man within the bar that is lesbian.

I do believe individuals have done a good task of pointing out that the Jewish individuals you will find here for a number of reasons, plus some of those will undoubtedly be prepared to date non-Jews. Additionally there are demonstrably a true quantity of non-Jews there who will be here for reasons except that fetishistic.

Just do not be harmed and offended when someone is troubled by you being there. Plainly there is a distinct segment here for you personally, nevertheless tiny it could be. I am able to almost guarantee that at some point some body will e-mail you something snotty if you set up a profile. As soon as a lesbian PREMIUM to email me personally and let me know that i really couldn’t come to be bisexual, as my advertising advertised, because I happened to be way too butch in my own picture and that I would fundamentally started to my senses. It made my week. I nevertheless laugh I think of how much she paid to express that opinion about it when. published by tejolote at 3:45 PM on August 5, 2010